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Lindsay Clancy is Next Door

by Courtney LaCava
Aug 13, 2026
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Lindsay Clancy is being held in a facility in the town next to me. 

She’s next door to me. And the truth is, most of us have had a Lindsay Clancy next door, perhaps without even knowing. Maybe you were that woman next door. 

Most aren’t women who did the unimaginable. They were women screaming for help postpartum - a silent scream behind a closed door and curated exterior.  

The battle right now is about who is to blame: 

Lindsay?

Her husband?

The doctors?

The whole medical system?

The medications?

The truth is, it’s a full system failure because it’s not a system that actually tends to core postpartum needs. It’s designed to perhaps help some, but fail far too many others. 

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